By Alexander Thornton

Most people are intimidated at the thought of public speaking. Furthermore, most people are unsure of the proper wedding speech etiquette which compounds public speaking anxiety.

This article will highlight some useful tips to prepare and deliver a wonderful speech.

The formal order of the speeches is:

1. father of the bride 2. the groom 3. the best man

In modern times, it is not uncommon for the bride, maid of honor or even some guests to say a few words.

The speech segment of the reception is usually held after the meals but there is no reason why the speeches cannot be before the meal.

For wedding speech etiquette follow these top ten tips:

1. If you're the one being toasted never raise your glass or drink from your glass until the toast is finished and other guests have sipped their drink.

2. No jokes that have ethnic or racial connotations.

3. Avoid any profane language.

4. Do not make any reference to any past/future lovemaking between the couple - eg - the honeymoon.

5. Don't mention previous marriages.

6. Don't chew gum, put your hands in your pocket or shuffle from side to side as you deliver the speech.

7. Don't drink more than a glass or two of alcohol before the speech.

8. Avoid any "sore" subjects such as a recent death in the family.

9. Always stand when delivering the toast.

10. Don't hit a glass with a spoon to gain attention. It is more polite to stand and hold your glass and wait for silence.

If you follow the ten tips above you will have no reason to be worried about following the proper wedding speech etiquette.

Alexander Thornton is a professional speechwriter who can help you learn more about delivering a dynamite wedding speech. Browse our speech templates and presentation tips at http://www.speeches-toasts.com

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