When you have used up 12months of intense planning to get
together all of the people that are important to you, it is
amazingly easy to loose sight of what really matters. You get
caught up in all of the minor details that most people feel are
essential, but when it comes down to it, if you leave the
chapel, beach, your home or anywhere you select to "tie the
knot", and you are married to the person that you want to spend
the rest of your life with, then your assignment has been
accomplished.

Generally when we plan weddings, we get financial support from
our families. Many times there is a conjecture that we have to
gratify them and make them happy too. This is not the case at
all. It is a day for you and your partner to share with your
friends and family, so it should show your style, not your
parents or your future in-laws'. If you try to make everybody
happy, you have the potential to create a great amount of
disorder and stress for yourself. This will only complicate
matters and ends up being a case of "Too many cooks in the
kitchen".

The next tip for maintaining your sanity is about choices. When
you begin your planning you will quickly notice that you have
set yourself free in a world where there are infinite
possibilities and options from which you can select. It is a
good idea to fix to your decisions once they have been made.
There are always going to be things that you see that you hope
you would have known about throughout your time in wedding
world. But if you carry on to bounce from theme to theme or
color to color, you will only waste time and energy and reduce
the possibility of enjoying this once-in-a-lifetime experience.

It helps you to relax if you elect times for your wedding
planning. Due to complete excitement, you will find that you
have "wedding on the brain" and may think about it 24-7. Choose
a couple of days a week and set aside a time slot to surf the
internet or make phone calls to schedule appointments, this will
keep you from becoming completely consumed and also provide you
a chance to focus on the rest of the life that is still
happening around you.

Finally, this is your wedding day!!! In the weeks previous to
the event, take a few minutes everyday to go to a calm place and
count your blessings. Write them down so that, in times of
stress you can refer back to them, smile and relax. Keep in
mind, your wedding day may be the first day of your new lives
together, but it is fostering your marriage that is what will
truly bring you years of happiness.

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